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A Landscape of People

I have been struck these past few days by the way some people seem to provide something like a backdrop to my daily life.  I am not talking about people I know well – friends, family, etc.  I am talking about people whose names I may or may not know, yet somehow they form part of the landscape in which my life is played out.

Like the elderly couple who live a floor above me.  They look nothing like the couple in this picture and yet in some way they are very similar.  They have been married a long time, have probably brought up a family, but still they enjoy each other’s company.  What fun to watch them walk down the street together.  Only recently that has not been happening.  For weeks, I only ever saw the husband.  I didn’t feel I could ask about his wife, since I don’t know them well at all and the news probably wasn’t good.  What joy then to see them together again just a few days ago!  I don’t know whether the wife was ill and has now recovered, or what the story is.  Either way – seeing them walk down the street together brought a smile to my face.

Or my landlord and his wife, who live just across the courtyard from me. I don’t chat to them all that often (though they are very friendly) but you kind of get to know the rhythm of someone else’s life when you live almost on eye level.  A couple of times a year, they go off on a long holiday in the sun (they are retired!) and it feels strange not seeing any signs of life over there.  Yesterday morning I noticed that the blinds were down in their kitchen.  They are back and somehow life feels just that little bit more normal again 🙂

Then there are the people who we only see once but who somehow still leave a mark.  Like this man I saw on the underground last week.  He was blind, using a stick to navigate the platform and train.  Not only that, though, he also had his 2 young children (about 2 and 4 years old) with him.  Two stressful situations going on at the same time yet he was so calm!  Amazing!  Quite an inspiration.

So often I hardly notice the people around me.  I guess that’s what happens when you live in a major city.  Which makes it so much more special when I do notice the people who are so much more than just part of the scenery!


2 thoughts on “A Landscape of People

  1. Very beautiful, Bayta!!
    And remember, you are part of somebody else´s landscape, too!
    Just this afternoon, when I went speed walking with my friend, one of the neighbours whom we both don´t know personally, addressed us laughingly: “hey, what´s wrong, you two, it´s the wrong time of day, isn´t it? Or have you been walking all day!?” Obviously, he had noted that, before, our usual walking time was in the mornings. 🙂

  2. if you ever get the chance to see a relatively recent film by Kristin Scott-Thomas, it explores exactly that, only set in France. Called Sophie’s Key.

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